Carmela Soprano (Edie Falco) was best known as a devoted wife to Tony Soprano (James Gandolfini), a doting mother to her two children, Meadow (Jamie-Lynn Sigler) and A.J. (Robert Iler), and a devoted Catholic with a peculiar relationship with her priest on The Sopranos (which you can stream on HBO Now). One thing she doesn’t get enough credit for, however, is her refusal to put up with anyone’s garbage or nonsense. Sure, her husband was the head of a criminal empire who cheated on her constantly — details that she knew and elected to ignore (to a point, anyway), and both her kids had varying airs of entitlement to them, but day-to-day, Carmela was anything but a pushover. In the spirit of her fierce tenacity, here are some choice Carmela quotes should you find yourself sick of putting up with everyone’s garbage.