In light of Kevin Hart’s decision to step down as host of the 2019 Oscars after some homophobic old tweets surfaced, the court of public opinion was split on whether the ultimatum delivered by the Academy was too harsh. On one hand, the subject matter of the tweets was viewed by many as reprehensible — on the other hand they were made nearly a decade ago, and people are certainly capable of change and growth.
In any event, fellow comedian Nick Cannon was one of Hart’s more vocal defenders, retweeting over the weekend a handful of old tweets from Amy Schumer, Chelsea Handler, and Sarah Silverman, all which contained gay slurs. Cannon was seemingly attempting to point out a double standard, but whether or not he hit the mark is certainly debatable.
Interesting🤔 I wonder if there was any backlash here… https://t.co/0TlNvgYeIj
— Nick Cannon (@NickCannon) December 8, 2018
And I fucking love Wreck it Ralph!!! 🤦🏾♂️ https://t.co/6cHA1EQEkg
— Nick Cannon (@NickCannon) December 8, 2018
And I fucking love Wreck it Ralph!!! 🤦🏾♂️ https://t.co/6cHA1EQEkg
— Nick Cannon (@NickCannon) December 8, 2018
Though none of the female comedians directly responded to Cannon, Silverman has reacted by retweeting British author Greg Hogben, who offered a detailed explanation (from the perspective of a gay man) for why the tweets dredged up by Cannon are not the same thing.
Thread❤️ https://t.co/QvKEz3QcxL
— Sarah Silverman (@SarahKSilverman) December 10, 2018
“Hey NickCannon, I understand the comparison you’re trying to make between Kevin Hart and these comediennes, but as a gay guy, let me share my opinion with you,” he started off. “This isn’t a rant, it’s more of an explanation of why *I see a difference.”
Do you remember the first time you saw someone get punched in real life? There was no sound effect ‘thwack’ like in the movies. The victim probably didn’t do a perfect movie stuntman roll. Could you feel the violence behind it? Recognize the malicious intent to inflict injury?
— Greg Hogben (@MyDaughtersArmy) December 9, 2018
That’s what homophobia feels like to me. I can feel the violence. I can feel the malicious intent. There’s been a trend of LGBT allies being accused of homophobia recently. Mostly it’s jokes about Trump/Putin relationship.
— Greg Hogben (@MyDaughtersArmy) December 9, 2018
Some people saw these jokes as homophobic, some saw them as a humorous way of point out the power imbalance. I think it started with Stephen Colbert's cock holster joke. pic.twitter.com/dzKliNPEvC
— Greg Hogben (@MyDaughtersArmy) December 9, 2018
He went on to compare other LGTBQ allies who have been accused of homophobic jokes, and why they, likewise, are not personally offensive to him.
Then Chelsea Handler and Jimmy Kimmel we’re accused of being homophobic with the same joke. pic.twitter.com/lmjd1dD2Cq
— Greg Hogben (@MyDaughtersArmy) December 9, 2018
The Bette Midler – LIFETIME LGBT ALLY GODDESS BETTE MIDLER – was accused of homophobia. pic.twitter.com/yUZzxT48AK
— Greg Hogben (@MyDaughtersArmy) December 9, 2018
The thing is, a lot of gay guys didn’t take offence to these comments, because we didn’t feel the violence or malicious intent behind it. Because we knew they were jokes. Because we knew these people were LGBT allies.
— Greg Hogben (@MyDaughtersArmy) December 9, 2018
In fact I, like hundreds of thousands of gay men, have actually PAID to see comediennes like Joan Rivers or Lisa Lampanelli make jokes that involved gay men. And we laughed at them, because we knew they were jokes.
— Greg Hogben (@MyDaughtersArmy) December 9, 2018
We also knew the history and backgrounds of these women. They used their massive platforms to help us long before marriage equality. And continue to do so. To use your examples of Sarah Silverman, Chelsea Handler and Amy Schumer… pic.twitter.com/k5qD1qUFtg
— Greg Hogben (@MyDaughtersArmy) December 9, 2018
I can’t say the same for Kevin Hart. I can't find a history of helping at risk LGBT youth. To be honest, his tweets and his stand-up gig saying he’d ‘do anything not to have a gay son,' made me bristle. In short, it *felt malicious.
— Greg Hogben (@MyDaughtersArmy) December 9, 2018
Finally, he remarked that while he did appreciate Kevin Hart’s eventual apology and that he’s apparently “evolved and grown,” it still doesn’t mean the old tweets are equal.
I appreciate Kevin Hart’s apology and think it’s great that he’s ‘evolved and grown,’ but I don’t think there’s much of a comparison in your tweet.
So while I understand your attempt to “both sides” this issue, I hope you can see why some gay men don’t see it the same.— Greg Hogben (@MyDaughtersArmy) December 9, 2018
Perhaps it would do Kevin Hart good to not only rehab his image, but continue to evolve and grow by helping at risk LGBTQ youth. Just a thought!