By the tone and inflection of the woman’s voice — “He gets A LOT of emails” — I figured my correspondence would get lost in the shuffle of men scratching at his digital door begging for the secrets of sensuality to be slid underneath. Can I SEDUCE you into an interview with a very popular website? read the subject line. Send. (I decided to continue writing this piece with the hopes that Jeffries would get back to me but also with the awareness that he might not.)
One of the best parts of Paul Thomas Anderson’s epic drama, Magnolia, is Tom Cruise’s performance as Frank T.J. Mackie. In fact, it’s one of Cruise’s best performances, period. If you haven’t see the film, then take a gander at the video below (if you’re into drum and bass music, you’ll appreciate this even more), which is the most profane Cruise has ever been with exception to Tropic Thunder.
Anderson was on Marc Maron’s latest WTF podcast, and during the discussion of Magnolia, the auteur dropped a little gem acknowledging Ross Jeffries as the inspiration for Cruise’s Oscar-nominated role. Mackie is one of Anderson’s most charismatic and engrossing characters, but who is this Ross Jeffries guy?
Jeffries website, Seduction.com, houses a short bio on him:
Ross Jeffries is the founder, creator and Master Teacher of the worldwide seduction community. Featured as the mentor to Neil Strauss in the best selling book, “The Game,” RJ has taught, coached, and mentored thousands of men around the world, since 1991, guiding them to the success with women they truly desire and deserve.
After a brief perusal of his blog headlines, this man’s function in society began to come into focus even more:
“Bring In 2015 With A Bang (Literally)”
“Touching Technique That Drives Her Crazy”
“I’m A Perpetual Mental Masturbator”
At the center of Jeffries’ Seduction website is the Speed Seduction system, which claims to be the “Fastest And Easiest Pathway To Rapid Success, With The Women You Truly Desire!” The basis of the program is something called NLP, or Neuro-Linguistic Programming. If you take a stroll through the vegetation of various definitions of NLP, you’ll come across definitions like this one from NLP University:
(NLP) is a pragmatic school of thought – an ‘epistemology’ – that addresses the many levels involved in being human. NLP is a multi-dimensional process that involves the development of behavioral competence and flexibility, but also involves strategic thinking and an understanding of the mental and cognitive processes behind behavior.
A more distilled definition of NLP brings us to a system that is based on cognitive and behavioral processes, one that allows you (I’m trying to not use the word “brainwash”) to inundate yourself with proven abilities of success while also instilling influence into others through the use of “linguistic patterns.” Here’s Jeffries discussing putting his program to use back in the early stages of his career.
(It was at this point in the writing process that my phone rang — a Beverly Hills number. To stay ahead of bill collectors I usually screen my calls. But, this was Beverly Hills, and I’m a fame whore. So I picked it up.)
“Ross Jeffries doesn’t exist,” the voice said.
I was taken aback.
The man on the phone identified himself as Paul Ross. No, he was not Ross Jeffries, but he knew so much about the man. Were they related? Did they work together?
“Ross Jeffries was a character I created,” Ross explained. “A loudmouth, obnoxious, larger than life, sort of a bit of a showman to get the message out there, to be a loud mouthpiece. That character doesn’t really meld with who I am today.”